Erotic Dominance Intensive for Men: Tops & Switches

“The Erotic Dominance course for men is phenomenal. Mind-blowingly good. Whether you are looking for an introduction to SM, basic erotic play and sensuality, or the opportunity to improve one’s erotic understanding and learn from a team of highly experienced instructors, this is it. It’s unique in the world and an opportunity not to be missed. The course is very comprehensive. It sets out a framework for play, provides excellent theoretical readings and support, has numerous on hand and detailed exercises and modules to help refine skills, all while working with world leading experts. The quality of the instructors and guest presenter’s is off the charts. If you take this course you will be an infinitely better partner, and your erotic understanding and skills will quantumly improve. Don’t miss out!”    –Russ  (more testimonials)

The Erotic Dominance Intensive for Men: Tops and Switches

is a weekend workshop that focuses on dominating with consent, confidence, skills, care, and style. We will post a date soon for this unique, intimate Dominant training.  Please sign up for my newsletter to be first to know when the class will be offered at the Citadel in San Francisco.  Private mentoring is also available, details and contact info on

Who is this Intensive for?

Eve Minax and I limit this course to 8 Dominant Men or Men who Switch. We welcome male players at all levels of expertise, as long as you have had some prior hands-on experience in the scene. Attend alone or come with a partner for this intimate workshop of hands-on exercises, lectures, demonstrations and real-time scenes at the SF Citadel.

Making your scenes more hot, fun, daring, memorable…

Discover new ways to raise that delicious energy that adds depth to our lives. Topics Include:

  • The power of conscious touch, breath, and energy awareness
  • Male presence, integrity and archetypes
  • Fine art of negotiation and making it sexy
  • What women want/need in order to trust and surrender
  • Cleo’s Secrets of Topping
  • Developing your scene and making it work for both of you
  • Body and Spirit connection in BDSM

Tuition Cost | What it Covers

$1050 per person, $1500 couple, covers the following:

  • Friday evening “Meet and Greet” at a private SOMA location
  • Group and one-on-one instruction at the SFCitadel
  • Comprehensive workbook
  • Experienced volunteer women bottoms
  • Private guided play party (with your own partner or a volunteer bottom) on Sunday!


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No Men’s Intensive has been scheduled for 2019.  Please sign up for Cléo’s newsletter to be first to know when this class will be offered at the Citadel in San Francisco.